1. La Definición de la Adultez y la Ventana de los 25 a 35 Años.
El archivo muestra una intensa discusión sobre cuándo se alcanza la verdadera madurez, a menudo situando el punto de inflexión entre los 25 y 35 años. Esta etapa es vista como un periodo de autoconciencia y establecimiento, contrastando con la inmadurez percibida de los veinteañeros.
- That sudden self awareness that hits you between 25-27 i cant relate to people younger than 24 because the lights arent on yet. There are some things they do and say because they dont know the truth yet.
- These people are way too scared of their 30s, which is frankly a great decade of life imo, its in the sweet spot of still look pretty young but also more grounded and established.
- My grandfather said that his forties were the best decade because you finally understand how to deal with people but youre still strong enough to get work done.
- I also think people 30-40 just forget how lacking in social skills a lot of people are 20-25 and dont appreciate 1 how many social skills theyve gained over the past 10 years.
2. Conflictos Intergeneracionales y Estereotipos.
Existe una fuerte tensión entre las generaciones, donde los grupos más jóvenes son criticados por los mayores, y viceversa. Se señala el "ageism" como una nueva forma de prejuicio y se critica la tendencia a agrupar a las personas por cohortes de nacimiento, ignorando la diversidad individual.
- Alot of people my age project their insecurities onto the next generation because they cant handle the fact theyre not young and with it anymore.
- I am always amused when people the ages of my adult daughters speak to me on this app like im their age and not their elder. I have 35 and 27 year old daughters. I am genx. Dont come for me. I will give smack you and then give you affirmations, unsolicited advice, and food to take home.
- Ageism is the hot new -ism. Its totally cool and different than all those old, bad, terrible -isms that were wrong. Its just common sense to group people based on roughly when they were born and treat them all the same. Definitely not some marketing tool being horribly misused by idiots.
- I am so done with all this the younger generation is fucked malarkey. They say that to me as were all just two or three years senior!? what they call young people. Theyre wrong. Young people are bright and creative and smart, everywhere, always. Be quiet and listen, and youll learn.
- I am at the stage of millennial where i am harshly judging people my age or older who are still using the big monoliths of social media. Its dead internet and melting brains.
3. La Controversia de las Brechas de Edad en Relaciones.
Un tema recurrente es la crítica a las relaciones con grandes diferencias de edad, especialmente cuando la persona mayor busca activamente a individuos significativamente más jóvenes. Se menciona la regla "half plus seven" como un estándar moral, y se advierte sobre las dinámicas de poder y el comportamiento depredador.
- I hate how impossible it has become to interact with people without there being some fuckass implication or another saying that if your age varies by a delta of any number above one then the older person is a creep.
- Gonna look at you hella suspiciously if youre mostly dating people 10 years younger than you if youre over 25 and youre into people in their late teens, youre an extremely gross person!!
- There is no reason a 45 year old should be dating a 26 year old and i dont care if other people are like well theyre both adults no it is creepy and it is wrong as shit. If you cant satisfy the divide by two add seven rule you are in fact a pedophile.
- One thing ill always see as a red flag is interacting with younger people in an overly peer-like way. Fighting with a 19 year old as a late 20searly 30s person and reacting like a high schooler would.
- I hate it when people say things like, but shes legally an adult! youre telling me younger women dont try to date older men? ive been there. The reason i was trying to date older men was because my brain wasnt developed enough to understand how fucking creepy it was.
4. Envejecimiento, Apariencia y la Búsqueda de la Juventud.
Las publicaciones reflejan la ansiedad por el envejecimiento y la apariencia física. Se discute cómo la percepción de la edad ha cambiado (la gente de antes parecía mayor) y cómo la sociedad valora excesivamente la juventud, aunque algunos encuentran belleza y liberación en la edad adulta.
- I find the older i get the more interesting i look and its not just me. I see 20 somethings now and find myself thinking they look underbaked. Age is a change you cant avoid and change is scary.
- I really need to impress upon some people that a lot of people used to look older in the 80s wasnt just that more people smoked and fewer people had work done, its the styling. They look old lady bc those haircuts and clothes are popular with 2020s old ladies.
- The best part of becoming a late 20s adult is finally realizing how hot people over 40 are. Give a man some wrinkles and boom. Sex icon.
- I love how old people complain about how young people are lazy right in front of me as if im not in my twenties and working as hard as i can.
- I love how old people complain about how young people are lazy right in front of me as if im not in my twenties and working as hard as i can.