1. La Carga de la Gente Tóxica y la Necesidad de Límites.
Los usuarios expresan una profunda frustración con la toxicidad, la falta de empatía y la manipulación en sus círculos sociales. Se destaca la importancia de establecer y mantener límites, incluso si esto significa perder relaciones, como un acto necesario de autocuidado y supervivencia emocional.
- I totally feel ya there. Im the same way. I like trying to be kind but sometimes you gotta cut off people.
- I guess the core of my emotional state is that it is difficult living with people who have no boundaries and dont respect my boundaries.
- You dont outgrow people, you outgrow the version of yourself that chose them.
- The day i stopped explaining my boundaries was the day people started respecting them.
- I poured a great deal of love and good faith and patience into people who pissed it away. And tried to burn down my life i am not kidding, because they couldnt handle being told no.
2. El Dilema del "People-Pleaser" y la Búsqueda de la Autenticidad.
Se refleja la tensión entre el deseo de ser amable y la necesidad de ser auténtico. Muchos posts giran en torno al miedo a la confrontación, el sentimiento de culpa al priorizar las propias necesidades y el esfuerzo por dejar atrás el hábito de complacer a los demás, a pesar de la ansiedad que genera la autoafirmación.
- I wish i was a better advocate for myself. Sometimes it feels like some people keep me around because im super nonconfrontational and will do anything for anyone, not necessarily because they like me p.
- I hate confrontation and making people feel bad because im a chronic people pleaser, but its part and parcel of the role so i have to just suck it up and hope people understand.
- I think im going to start telling people no when they ask me for help. Because no one is able to help me when i need it i feel like im just a resource to people.
- I am getting better at budgeting and prioritizing self-care. Even my parents have trouble with self-advocacy, sometimes. It is important to never hate people.
- I am officially tired of worrying what people think or whats the point of doing something just because others wont notice.
3. Aislamiento, Incomprensión y la Paranoia Social.
Una gran parte del archivo aborda la soledad, la sensación de ser invisible o un estorbo, y la dificultad para conectar genuinamente. Existe una constante preocupación por la percepción ajena, llevando a la auto-reclusión y a la internalización de culpas, a menudo alimentada por experiencias pasadas de traición o rechazo.
- I guess well see if this is all in my head. But generally i dont think you mute, ghost and avoid someone everywhere because you plan on keeping them around.
- I feel like im just a loser. I feel like im making a fool of myself all the time but i trust my gut, and i trust the people around me.
- I often assume people dont like me. Its not insecurity, its uncertainty. I dont instinctively know how people feel about me, so my brain fills in the blanks with the safest guess they probably dont.
- I am deathly afraid of people who take me for granted as their dopamine dispenser. No consideration for how i feel, and ignore what i have to say with an underlying tone of shut up and make me feel good.
- I feel like im all the things that people my age see as negative and try repress boiled into one person.