1. Definición y autodescubrimiento de la apatía de género.
Los individuos exploran términos como "apagender" o "gender apathy" para describir una falta de conexión o interés por el concepto de género, encontrando en ello una forma de libertad frente a las presiones sociales.
- Gender apathy is such a weird thing. Your brain is just like i dont care but at the same time wants to have a label just to fit in. But yeah, for myself i am gender apathetic.
- Being gender apathetic is weird because were conditioned to think apathy is a bad thing. But, truthfully, being apagender is freeing af.
- Learned of gender apathy, stuff like apagender, cassgender, and greygender. How did i not know of this sooner that is literally me.
2. El vínculo entre la neurodivergencia y el desapego del género.
Existe una fuerte correlación percibida entre el autismo y la apatía de género, donde las normas y expectativas de comportamiento binario se perciben como construcciones ajenas o carentes de sentido lógico.
- I kinda wish there were proper studies into what i call autistic gender apathy, because even among other cis autistic people ive definitely noticed theres a general attitude of feeling detached from gender.
- Spending my entire life having gender feelings but i am now understanding that its probably just the autism and gender apathy.
- I also dont think its possible to separate my autism-- both the relative apathy-to-distaste for heterosexual social norms that dominate sexdating.
3. La apatía como manifestación de la disforia y la disociación.
Para muchos, la apatía no es una identidad estática, sino un síntoma de disforia no procesada que se manifiesta como entumecimiento emocional, niebla mental o una desconexión total del propio cuerpo.
- Learned that my utter apathy for my gender and general disassociation from life was gender dysphoria! we got there eventually, just needed the push.
- I can describe gender dysphoria as nothing else but pandoras box for a long time one can repress, keep the box closed and live in a sort of blissful apathy fog.
- My dysphoria presented not as hate of my body but pure apathy. Even just being in the gym, that was sort of a last grasp at trying to be masculine.
4. Indiferencia ante los pronombres y la presentación social.
Una característica común de la apatía de género es la flexibilidad o falta de preferencia por pronombres específicos, permitiendo que otros elijan la etiqueta sin que esto afecte la identidad interna.
- Yesterday i realized how profoundly little i care about this. Call me he. Call me she. Call me ze. I literally could not care less as long as you make it clear about whom youre speaking.
- Im enby in the sense of i have gender apathy so i dont care if people call me hehim. I just never really gave a fuck about gender i did what i liked.
- The dude at burger king that i got my food from tonight mistakenly called me sir and i. Didnt care? like complete and utter apathy.
5. El impacto de la transición en la recuperación de la sensibilidad.
Al iniciar tratamientos de reemplazo hormonal o transiciones sociales, muchos usuarios reportan que la apatía crónica desaparece, permitiéndoles experimentar emociones intensas y una nueva alegría de vivir.
- The thick fog of dissociation and apathy that plagued me before feels more distant every day, is this how other people feel normally? was i alive before??
- Estrogen i think greatly impacted me. It was difficult before because dysphoria was so bad to the point of a complete numbness of emotion and apathy towards life.
- I survived by masking the pain with apathy but transitioning has made me want to live, not just survive. I dont want to mask any longer. I want to feel things again.